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Do you work with a student who is struggling?

PUT YOUR OXYGEN ON FIRST....

 Your perception and expectations for a child are based on your wiring and previous experiences.
Helping a child find HAPPY will need to consider why you think as you do.

It is just as important to recognize YOUR wiring and threshold needs so that your responses during a moment of stress can be supportive and positive. 

Self-care is critical for both parents and educators so take care of YOU. Then once you feel strong, consider these specific traits unique to this child:

  • When you identify a child's wiring, you will have a keener appreciation for why they do what they do. 
  • When you figure out their sensory needs or deficits this will determine how you can adjust their environment so they can find success.
  • When you know what skills are weak, you can fill in those holes with coaching, skill building, or allowing them more time to figure it out.​

Tools for different learners

How to Decrease the Input of a Space- Dealing with a Fire Dragon

How to Increase the Input of a Space- Dealing with a Sleepy Dragon

How to Increase the Input of a Space- Dealing with a Sleepy Dragon

  • Seat student in place where others don't bump their desk
  • Use noise-cancelling headphones
  • Prepare kids before calling on them in front of others

How to Increase the Input of a Space- Dealing with a Sleepy Dragon

How to Increase the Input of a Space- Dealing with a Sleepy Dragon

How to Increase the Input of a Space- Dealing with a Sleepy Dragon

  • Let kids stand at desk or sit on wobble chair or cushion
  • Fidgets only work if they are not distracting to themselves or others
  • Integration movement strategies and frequent breaks into tasks

This educator resource is designed specifically for the classroom. It offers practical strategies and meaningful insights to support self-regulation and behavior. When behavior is seen through a different lens, it is easier to understand, respond, and support students more effectively. Click the book image to be directed to amazon for purchase

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Helping Kids Self-Regulate at Home with a “Dragon” Book

This is an example of what you can use to support your students. For the downloadable materials to make this book, sign up (or sign in) with email in the member portal below.

ADHD--Attentional Deficits

by age 12, a child with ADHD is estimated to receive 20,000 more negative messages than their friends without ADHD (Dr. Dodson)

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Become a Member to Access Tools for ADHD

Become a Member to Access Tools for ADHD

Become a Member to Access Tools for ADHD

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Behavior and regulation in children...understanding the why

 This short 8-minute introduction video shares the key factors that influence behavior in children so that solutions and strategies can be better utilized. 


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