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Like a detective, start by gathering clues.
What do you notice?
When does the behavior occur?
What makes it better or worse?
What strengths does the child have?
What expectations are being placed on them?
Behavior is often the first clue—not the final answer.
When an adult finally understands a child they see...
-The humor behind the impulsivity.
-The leadership behind the bossiness.
-The compassion behind the sensitivity.
-The engineer behind the child who can't sit still.
-The artist behind the daydreaming.
The magic was always there.
Someone just had to see it.
The puzzle pieces in this library will help you consider the many factors that may be influencing a child's behavior so you can choose supports that match their needs.
Remember, our goal is not simply to stop behavior. Our goal is to understand it.











Sometimes the environment is simply asking too much of a child's nervous system. Small changes can make a big difference.
Reduce visual distractions
Reduce background noise
Reduce movement and activity
Reduce cognitive demands
Create a calmer atmosphere

Some children need more sensory input to help their brain stay alert, focused, and engaged. The goal isn't to create more stimulation—it's to provide the right stimulation.
Increase opportunities for movement
Provide opportunities for heavy work
Offer movement while learning
Use tools thoughtfully
Increase alerting sensory experiences
Children benefit from high expectations, opportunities to learn, and meaningful challenges.
However, expectations must also be realistic and developmentally appropriate.
A task that is too easy limits growth.
A task that is too difficult often leads to frustration, avoidance, or dysregulation.
Our goal is to help educators identify the just-right challenge—where children feel supported enough to be successful while continuing to develop new skills.
Supports may include:
As children develop, expectations should grow with them.
Curiosity Means asking Questions:
"What is the just-right challenge for this child, in this moment?"

Your perception and expectations for a child are based on your wiring and previous experiences. Helping a child find HAPPY will need to consider why you think as you do.It is just as important to recognize YOUR wiring and threshold needs so that your responses during a moment of stress can be supportive and positive. Self-care is critical for both parents and educators so take care of YOU. Then once you feel strong, consider these specific traits unique to this child:
This short 8-minute introduction video shares the key factors that influence behavior in children so that solutions and strategies can be better utilized.
Strategies to help with classroom management and behavior
Click here to Print and Download PDFShare this audio book with your students to help them understand why Dragon Training is so important!
Another option for printing a "Dragon Training Book"
Click here to Print and Download PDF
This program helps kids understand how their brain can sometimes take over behavior. It also teaches them ways to recognize those feelings, manage their “dragons,” and regain control so they can feel better and do what they need to do.